Most of what makes a person successful are not hard skills, they are attributes and attitudes that they develop.
Which of these traits do you embody really well?
Which traits would you like to work on for the rest of this year?
TOP TIP: To accelerate the embodiment of these traits… Imagine what it would feel like to already possess this trait. Feel it in your body. Imagine how this new version of you shows up. Make this a part of your daily routine and you will experience massive shifts very quickly.
1. Dependability
When you know you can be depended on, it gives you a constant confirmation of your self-worth. Your value is concrete and you know that not only can others count on you– but you can count on yourself.
2. Resourcefulness
Resourcefulness gives us the ability to adapt to any situation. Life often hits us with surprises and it’s what we do with what we have that determines how happy and successful we become.
3. A sense of curiosity and wonder
The world has so much to explore and enjoy and by maintaining that sense of curiosity and wonder you can derive great joy from the world as you learn more about it.
4. Drive
Without drive, you’re not liable to accomplish anything of value. You need to have the ability to self-motivate, to get yourself up and move forward whether things are good or bad. No one can do this for you, so you must have the drive to do it for yourself.
5. Willpower
In life, you will be tempted by things like procrastination or distraction. So, you’ll need the willpower to say no when something doesn’t align with your major goals and the strength to pick yourself up if you ever do find yourself distracted.
6. Patience
Success isn’t going to come when you want it– in fact, most things typically don’t. So, you need patience. Be like Edwin C. Barnes and decide in your mind that, no matter how long it takes, you will realize your primary goals in life. Then, get to work.
7. Passion
Passion is critical to both happiness and success. In fact, it can hit two birds with one stone by being the focus of your professional success, making a living doing what you love. However, regardless, you need to follow your passion as that will give your life a sense of meaning and, without it, I’d argue you can never truly realize any measure of success.
8. Self-belief
You need to believe in yourself. This is one of the single most important traits for realizing success in anything. Believing in yourself doesn’t mean you’re perfect or without flaws, but rather, that you know your worth and believe in your capability.
9. Humility
This world is big, scary, and unpredictable, no matter how big and bad you become. It’s important to stay humble and remember that we’re all just a small flicker in the scope of things. This will make it easy to remember what is most important and to prioritize those things.
10. Gratitude
As you climb your custom-made ladder of success ever higher, it’s important to remain grateful for what you have. In fact, Gary Vee has said it’s his ability to remember all the things he’s grateful for that has helped make him so successful.
11. Acceptance
This world is filled with all kinds of different people. Different shapes, sizes, colors, backgrounds, personalities, orientations, and passions. In order to find happiness, you need to be accepting of all people. You can’t have happiness without peace and you can’t have peace without removing hatred.
12. Integrity
Being a good, polite, considerate person isn’t just about being that way around others, it’s about being that way deep down, even when no one is watching. When you live this way, it gives you a sense of comfort and confirmation of your self-worth.
13. Honesty
When you lie, it eats away at your conscience and can make you miserable. It can become hard to remember what the truth is and, the more you lie, harder to get back up from the weight those lies place on you.
14. Loyalty
Loyalty is important solely because it has such an important role to play in your personal and professional relationships. Without loyalty, you’re a person who doesn’t understand the importance of your closest friends and confidants and who can easily lose their trust.
15. Responsibility
Following through on your responsibilities plays a big part in both your happiness and success because responsibilities are often tied to money and relationships, both of which play a big part in happiness and success in their own way.
16. Compassion
The power that caring for others can have on your own happiness and even your success isn’t very well documented yet, however, it’s no less true. To understand and feel for others allows you to make deeper connections with those you love and that deeper understanding helps you work with others more effectively as well.
17. Forgiveness
You can’t live the rest of your life blaming someone for your pain and expect to be happy. If something is hanging over your head, you’ve got to be able to forgive (even if you never forget) so you can move on.
18. Authenticity
One of the most important points on this list is to be yourself. Whether that means answering a personal question honestly that could make you feel exposed or following your heart when it comes to career choices, being your authentic self is critical for your happiness (and often helps you become more successful, too).
19. Bravery
Bravery is a hugely important quality. Life will bring you face-to-face with some very scary situations at times and you need to be willing to stand up to those things to get passed them.
20. Generosity
Most people still haven’t learned the power of giving. To give your time, effort, and resources to others– and to see the gratitude on their faces– has an incredibly powerful effect that can move you deeply and give you a great sense of joy.
21. Perseverance
Everything of value in life is a long game. Nothing truly valuable happens overnight.
That’s why perseverance is so important. You need to persevere through the crap– whatever your particular challenges maybe – if you ever hope to realize happiness and success.
22. Kindness
Another one of the most important qualities on this list. Similar to generosity, kindness is about taking action. It is about expressing warmth and offering a gesture that can help another human being and making them feel welcomed and accepted. Also similar to generosity, acts of kindness can make you feel spectacular.
23. Optimism
Optimism is one of the most critical qualities required for seeing your way through life’s most difficult challenges.
However, it’s about more than just overcoming challenges, it’s also critical for realizing success, as you’ll be faced with challenges along the way that seek to thwart you and you’ll need to have the strength to stay positive despite them.
24. Reliability
Reliability is one of those indirect traits that you don’t realize is important– until you let someone down. It doesn’t just affect them, it affects you. Specifically, it makes you feel horrible when you let someone down and a lack of reliability can damage your relationships — arguably the most important factor for happiness and success.
25. Self-discipline
Discipline is one of the most critical success traits, especially if your definition of success involves owning your own business or working on your own terms. As soon as you’re on your own, you’ll find that lots of self-discipline is necessary if you want to stay on track to realize your goals.
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Remember that you are amazing. You have come so far.
CELEBRATE YOUR SUCCESSES EVERY DAY.
You have totally got this.
I hope you receive this message with love, kindness, patience and acceptance.
Your Guide,
Luke Scott III
Source: Goalcast (see link below to full article)
25 Character Traits to Cultivate for Lasting Happiness and Success
ABOUT LUKE SCOTT III
Luke Scott III is an Award Winning International Speaker, Television Host and Spiritual Mentor. Luke is the Founder of the StandOut Speakers Academy and one of the Founders of the Academy of Conscious Sexuality.
Growing up in a dysfunctional family, drugs and violence were a normal part of Luke’s home and family life. Luke never fitted into this environment and knew he was destined for much greater things.
From a young age, Luke was fascinated with business, sales and psychology and has had many business ventures which taught him some essential do’s and don’ts. Luke has spent the past 13 years studying Personal Development, learning the secrets of how the world’s most successful and most conscientious people operate. After having a deep awakening experience, Luke began an intense journey to discover who he truly is and what he truly wants. Luke now travels the world sharing these secrets from stage so that others can achieve true success and happiness without having to spend 13 years learning these things themselves.
Luke’s main values are Freedom and Growth, “We can have everything in this life that we desire, but first we have to find out Who We Truly Are and What We Truly Want.”
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